When is it time to change friends?

Friendship is one of the main values ​​of humanity, but in modern realities, friends do not always have a positive impact on us and our lives.

If everything suits you or does not suit you, but you do not want to significantly change your life, then you can skip reading. Leave it as it is, and don't think about changing friends. If you want to change your life, it is very important to know that friends in this endeavor may be completely unhelpful.

The vast majority of people change little, or rather, they change - getting old and everything like that, but they cannot decide on global changes in their lifestyle, mentality, values. They philosophize about success and time management, and that's where it ends.

Therefore, talking to friends from a past life will make it harder for you to move forward. They will perceive you as the same and pull you back.

Try the following route - don't give up on friends, but choose not to communicate with them for 6 months. All this time, devote 100% to your work, self-development, study! Then you can meet and you will notice that you are no longer so interested with your former friends, they are left somewhere behind and there are not so many common topics for conversation, and the friends themselves do not perceive you as they used to.

Having met once, do not meet again and again, otherwise your new skills will begin to wear off, and friends will pull you into the past. Immerse yourself in your studies, work, self-development again. Another six months will pass, and you will become more and more distant from each other with your former friends. Then you can find a new circle of friends, because in fact friends, if they do not make our life better, are not such a great value, but on the contrary, they tempt us into empty entertainment, bad habits ...

An intelligent person controls his own life and chooses friends for himself, and the so-called ordinary people maintain relationships with those with whom their life has brought them due to various circumstances. Such friends often keep you within the framework of the intellectual and cultural development in which you were before and do not allow you to develop.