Family or freedom

I warn you right away that despite my personal choice, I respect the family and believe that the family should be supported in every possible way at the level of the state and the church.

Happy children can grow up only in a full-fledged family with a father and mother. Although, of course, various exceptions are possible ...

Only today mystylex.techinfus.com/en/ will not persuade you to marry or marry, I will not persuade you to live a free life. The conversation will focus on people's perception of the opposite way of life. I will tell you my personal impressions, which I have accumulated a lot.

Despite the fact that I carefully choose my circle of friends, I have many different acquaintances, and besides them, I often had to enter into discussions with unfamiliar people at various events. Based on this, it was possible to conclude that almost 99% of people defend their position in conversations. Family people, praise the family, and free people talk about the delights of a free life.

This is quite natural, because a person wants to think that he is living correctly, that he was not mistaken. True, some people, or rather there are many of them, impose their worldview on this issue. They convince in every possible way that it is necessary to start a family, talk about the sweets of family life, how good it is and wonder how a person can be without a family and how they see their future.

Very often they cite as an example the story of the notorious glass of water, which in old age will be served by loving grandchildren and much more. I have answers to everything that any arguments can refute or question. But only this dispute I do not perceive as a dispute, because I have a firm conviction that I am right. Therefore, in such disputes, I just get pleasure, due to the fact that my choice brings me happiness and pleasure every day, and therefore it is funny for me when someone is pushing with all his might in order to convince me that I am living wrong.

At the same time, I never try to convince opponents about their lifestyle. I appreciate the family and wish that in Russia as many people as possible get married in a church and create a happy, friendly family, raise children. If people want family life, everything is fine, live and be happy, but why spend a lot of energy to convince those whose choice is a free life?

After analyzing a lot of conversations, I was able to conclude that the most active debaters in this matter are people of a low level of culture and people who are narrow-minded. They are the ones who are most surprised how you can live without a family, how you can not think about the notorious glass of water and many other things that a family gives ...

And people who are cultured and have a broad outlook, very calmly perceive the opposite choice.

That's it. Therefore, if in disputes you are furiously trying to persuade your girlfriend or relative to get married, convincing her that this is the only way she can be happy, pay attention to yourself! If you made the right choice - enjoy life, give advice - if asked, but do not impose your happiness on those who can be much smarter and happier than you.

There are actually few of them, only a few get real pleasure and happiness from a free life. Most people want a family, but in the modern world, where selfishness reigns, it is very difficult to start a family, so most free people want a family, but they cannot and do not have happiness in life.

If free people are smart and cultured, they do not prove the correctness of their choice. If you meet a person who proves that the family has outlived its usefulness, that this is the last century, and you need to live freely and happily - you know, before you is a person dissatisfied with life who cannot live as he wants, but does not want to admit his failure and therefore proves the correctness of his position.

Only a few can live freely and enjoy it, while they approve of the family, and they get pleasure from arguments, because it is so funny to look at a person who does not see your true state of mind and is trying to make you happy.