Emigration - Does the End Justify the Means?

If you actively use the Internet, read creative websites and magazines dedicated to success, business, organizing your time, you must have met emigration stories many times, where people tell their experiences and share their impressions.

There are fictional stories, sometimes only the best is revealed, which is also embellished. And there are true stories in which the author talks about the incredible difficulties that he had to overcome, and still, after several years after the move, he has to overcome.

Emigration to another country always brings with it a lot of difficulties. The only exceptions are rich people. They can buy a house right away, do not deny themselves anything, and most importantly, do not run in search of work. If you don't have much money, you will have to make a lot of effort in order to simply get a job in a new place, find some modest housing and the most ordinary job. Only in what then does success consist? What is the point of spending a lot of effort and time in order to end up again in the place of the most ordinary man in the street?

I am always amazed at such stories when a person tells what a difficult path he had to go through. At first, he had to work hard at home to save money. Then he sells all movable and immovable property, on which he loses a lot of money. Then move and adaptation, which stretches over the years.

As a result, a person, through incredible efforts, merges into a new society, learns a foreign language at the proper level and eventually finds a job that allows him to maintain a modest apartment, a simple car and at the same time work hard. What is the point of wasting years of life and so much energy to become a gray inhabitant in a country where there are a lot of problems?

Maybe it's better to spend all this time and effort to achieve real success in your place? Just do not justify yourself by the fact that in Russia there are a lot of reasons and obstacles that hinder success in studies, work, business and just life. Problems and obstacles are everywhere, otherwise our emigrants would very quickly achieve real success in their new homeland, and as we can see, they are not achieving anything special there.

Many success theorists teach us in their lectures and books that we need to travel, we need to meet different new people, we need to change our place of residence, we need to get out of the comfort zone. But why, why create unnecessary difficulties for yourself? The time of our life and strength are limited, so we need to really calculate our capabilities.

It is much better to spend time and energy on achieving real success if you only know what you really want.

The bulk of people in Russia, Europe and the United States live very modestly, if not miserably. At the same time, each country has a lot of pluses and minuses, but the person who grew up in it can make the most of the pluses of this or that country. Emigration brings with it a lot of difficulties and in the end it will not make you a successful person, you will also remain an ordinary person.

Open social networks, look at the pages of peers living in different countries. The appearance, clothing and everyday life of the bulk of people clearly shows that in Europe and the United States, most people live and dress no better than average Russians.

At the same time, everywhere there are people leading a bright and luxurious lifestyle, but their minority and in order to become one of them, you do not need to move anywhere, you can earn a lot of money in any city in Russia and arrange your life in the best way. It is this that is a success, and not a dubious emigration, where the end absolutely does not justify the means.

Here, many may notice that many rich people have left or wish to leave Russia. There is such a thing, but this is a completely different story.We now have a lot of people who are not satisfied with life, regardless of their wealth and position in society, which just don't let them be always enough, they always want more and better. The reason for this attitude towards life is a spiritual emptiness that cannot be filled with any money, there will always be a feeling of dissatisfaction. We'll talk only about this next time.