Psychology and relationships

Real and fictional life on the Internet


On the Internet, there are more and more stories of various girls who became disillusioned with social networks and tear off their masks, telling their real life. Let's philosophize on this topic and understand why these girls do not feel happy and where is the real and where is the fictional life ...


Why do girls, with hundreds of thousands of followers on Instagram and Facebook, delete their pages? Why do they record a video with confessions, where to tell everyone that in fact she is not what subscribers and fans saw. Why write as if it is ordinary, and all these ideal photographs were made by selecting the best ones with further processing in Photoshop? Why are these confessions, who needs them?


There are more and more such stories, seemingly successful girls admit that they are unhappy and delete their pages on social networks. They try to explain the reason by the fact that they lived a fictional life, and not a real one. But where is the border between real life and a fictional image?


If a retired man creates a page on a social network, where he introduces himself as 18-year-old Marinochka and communicates with other girls on all sorts of intimate topics, this is actually a fictional life, but at the same time it is a very bright on-line game.


Grown people play dances and all kinds of knights, spend several hours a day playing games. Some people spend real money on online games in order to have an advantage over ordinary players. What for? For pleasure, impressions of communication and interaction with other characters, a sense of their own importance in the game. This is fine? Many people condemn this phenomenon, but there are many who approve of games, arguing that it is necessary to somehow have fun and relieve stress, and games are much better than alcohol.


Most would agree that it is better to play games than to drink beer and vodka on a bench or in a garage. Therefore, people play and will play, but not everyone likes dances and knights, someone wants to get used to the image of an 18-year-old beauty and communicate with different people.


It is quite possible that then disappointment, depression will come and the person will feel unhappy, but around there are millions of people who, without any invented images, are unhappy all their lives and do not see any gaps. Therefore, many people living in a fictional world have many more happy days in their lives than some people living completely real life.


This goes for completely fictional images on social media. Now let's get back to our heroines. Girls improve their photos many times, remove all defects, narrow the waist, take pictures with other people's cars and even with other people's bouquets of flowers. Everything is being done to embellish their lives and through social networks to show the whole world how happy they are.


Real and fictional life on the Internet

For a while, everything turns out great for them, but then they get tired, and disappointment comes, or maybe exposure, and then a period of sadness and depression begins. Only mood swings affect all people, no one lives in happiness all the time, and a fictional life is not the main reason here. Also, is their behavior on social media a completely fictional life?


Not at all, the girls lived their real lives, and they just bragged on social networks, and for the time being they enjoyed it. But as mentioned above - no pleasure can last indefinitely and even a whole life. It all ends sometime.


Ups and downs, periods of happiness and unhappiness accompany people all their lives, but social networks and dreamer girls accelerate these processes and multiply the number of disappointments in the lives of many people.


Beauties on social networks show many photos where they are doing well and they are unrealistically happy.Other girls look at them and draw conclusions. Some imitate and want to be the same, while others are jealous, sad and discouraged. It is impossible to count how many girls a successful Internet beauty can spoil the mood of, such statistics can only be found in heaven.


Therefore, when an Internet star gets depressed and deletes her page with hundreds of thousands of subscribers, it is worth thinking - maybe this is a payback for the evil brought, for those experiences and tears that her images brought to thousands of others ...


Real and fictional life on social media

Of course, we are all responsible for our lives, deeds and even thoughts, no one can cause envy in a person against his will, but in any case, if we try to do this, we will have to answer, and sometimes the reckoning comes very quickly. An understanding of the meaninglessness of this whole game on social networks comes.


This understanding and feeling of disappointment from the wasted time on social networks will come to everyone who attaches too much importance to Vkontakte, Instagram, Facebook. Social networks are beneficial and useful only to their owners, owners of large communities and celebrities. They use social media as a tool to make money.


If you are not the owner of Vkontakte, you are not the owner of a large community and you are not well-known singer, you need to use social networks, only to congratulate friends and relatives, and also, to find business partners or people with similar interests, for example, to engage in creativity, exchange collectibles. At the same time, do not forget - social networks drag out and take away from you more and more precious time, which will be lost irretrievably and often meaningless.


Real and fictional life on the Internet
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